FYI, this site exist to encourage respect and tolerance for all people, particularly gays. You don't stop loving a family member cause you find out they are gay. However, this site does not encourage tolerance and respect for people possessing, using, or dealing in drugs. To make a long story short, I invited some people over to chat with my child and incidently search her room, narcotics officers. She's been busted thankyouverymuch.